netfilter: nf_dup_netdev: add nf_dev_xmit_recursion*() helpers and use them

netfilter: nf_dup_netdev: add nf_dev_xmit_recursion*() helpers and use them

Update nft_dup and nft_fwd to use the nf_dev_xmit_recursion() helpers.
This patch also disables BH when transmitting the skb to address a
possible migration to different CPU leading to imbalanced decrementation
of the recursion counters.

This is modeled after Florian Westphal's dev_xmit_recursion*() API
available since commit 97cdcf37b57e ("net: place xmit recursion in
softnet data") according to its current state in the tree.

Fixes: 1d47b55b36d2 ("netfilter: nft_fwd_netdev: use recursion counter in neigh egress path")
Fixes: f37ad9127039 ("netfilter: nf_dup_netdev: Move the recursion counter struct netdev_xmit")
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>