btrfs: stripe_alloc: trace why padding declined, at the moment it declined
The counters say how often padding refused and broadly why, but not what
the run looked like when it happened, and reconstructing that from the
extent tree afterwards cannot distinguish "the stripe was already
allocated when this write arrived" from "it was allocated shortly after".
Those want different fixes, so record the decision where it is made.
Also count the second refusal, which had no counter at all: the oracle can
allow padding and the sector walk still refuse, because a sector below the
frontier is not covered by this write. That is the case where another
allocation shares the stripe and its data is not in this rbio -- a
different thing from the oracle finding the whole stripe allocated.
The tracepoint carries the stripe, how much of it this write covers, the
refusal reason, and the run's start/end/frontier/inflight, so a trace says
directly whether the frontier had already run past the stripe when the
write showed up.